Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

What do you expect from the internet? Is it a place where you will meet the love of your life or earn money? Or do you just want to have fun or talk to someone, because you are feeling lonely? If you promote yourself on social media, one of your basic problems or obstacles is people who are following and unfollowing you. This is an unhealthy balance and fake support because one day your number of followers is lower when you realize some of them were unfollowing you. It is especially visible on Instagram. As someone who has an Instagram account, my number of followers is decreasing and increasing, depending on the circumstances. Why your followers are unfollowing you? Ego burst. They think they are famous, good-looking, and rich and you are not their match. Sad, but true, many people on Instagram do that to make others feel important in the eyes of the public. Expectations. People expect you will give them your free time, to pay attention to them, talk or open the camera. When this does...

A big manifestation of ego in social media is visible through the option follow. Everyone wants fans, a big community, someone who will admire them, buy their stuff, and obey orders. What would celebrities in old times say about this mess? Ava Gardner, Marylin Monroe, Brigitte Bardot did not need social media, they were adored and followed by fans. Today, every plastic girl with a duck face thinks she is a star. Every guy who has naked photos and muscles expects women are slaves who will obey him. As everyone who wants to upgrade online business, in my case books, I need followers. I follow many people, but I will unfollow them if they bother me in private. That is my basic rule if I don't know you if I never talked to you before, and you insist to bother me, I will block you. In other ways, I don't think that I am better than anyone else. I am not a star and I am not pretentious.  This is how some women and men think, they will follow a bunch of people and when they reach a bi...

Nowadays many people wish to be popular. Everyone sees a chance to become an influencer, or celebrity, and it takes a lot of followers.  How do get the correct number of followers? How to get a thousand, million people to follow you? Why would they follow you? These are questions that need an answer. One of the answers is to pay your followers with boosting. Many applications offer this for money, and people will spam your inbox on social media to get you.  If you pay your followers, you will get what you need to know, but it is not permanent. The algorithm on Instagram will delete your followers. You might lose your account. People can accuse you of spam if you offer them a follower boost. Those followers are not people for interaction, they are numbers. Don't expect comments and sharing from them. Having a lot of followers with some tools is an illusion. It doesn't mean real people follow you and recognize your talent. It means you bought attention and affection.  Do yo...

“How is it going on the blog? Are you earning a lot? ” My friend asked me this before a long time and said also: “I would like to write a blog, too. “ I did not want to discourage her and break her illusions. Writing a blog is not simply how it looks. Mostly, people live in dreams that they will be popular overnight and that they will learn a lot of money. I am a person who will never pretend. If I comment on your content, it means I really like this. I am not a person who will put a thousand likes on your post and then say: “ Wow, now look at my blog.  ” This is an old trick, we all know that such “admiration” indeed means that I did not read your content and that I only wanted to be noticed. Another thing which every beginner at blog afraid are haters. Well, I must wake you up. There are no haters, there are only silent, ignorant people. Believe me, millions of bloggers are on the Internet, and if you gain haters, it means they read you. So, you should be grateful f...