Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

You heard about this story already: "I want the relationship without the obligation. " This is how a man turns on his defensive mechanism when he doesn't want to commit to a woman.  He wants immediately to clear all conditions: I am not obligated to be faithful. I am not obligated to reply to your messages. Don't expect calls from me. I am not obligated to marry you. Even if some women will accept such a "relationship" when they fall in love, a man could have problems.  Some women are persistent, they don't want to accept the fact that love is one-sided. So they give without return, invest, expect, and dream about a change of attitude.  They don't hear, they read between lines. "I can't be faithful in the beginning but when I realize how awesome are you, I will stop chasing other women. " "I will reply to your messages because with time you will miss me." "I will call you to check how are you." "I will marry you...

Emotional emptiness is worse than a breakup. In the state of a breakup, you will yell, cry, or throw anger outside of you. If you are numb, there is only dead silence. It is hard to feel something. Desires died, this emotional thrill is not present anymore. Now there is a desperate attempt to wake up your desires again. Whoever passed through this state, it is familiar to feel like a paper. Now you are somewhere outside. Do you notice someone, where all the sparks went? Handsome boys are outside, but you don't notice. Someone is winking at you, but you don't care. Someone gave you a compliment, but this is annoying. After a breakup with Gavin, Sylvia emotionally failed. This was a stormy relationship, and she felt like she spent all the energy on him. She was again in the game, but nothing excited her more. She picked up her old friend Sam; he was her fig-bird in the past. He was the ideal partner to comforting her. They made love and Sylvia felt app...

The relationship should start with positive vibes. If you are constantly nagging, talking about your issues or your mood is bad, your partner will have a burden. During development, this relationship will have obstacles, but it should not be at the start. Flavio fell in love with Laura because she did not judge him. She was smiling, looking at him, her feelings burst in the silence. Flavio was a playboy, and women did not get him seriously. Laura thought this at first sight, but she gave him a chance. These steps were slow but progressive. Flavio saw a woman full of energy even though she had a lot of problems. She has the strength, and this attracted him. Start with butterflies. Sparks are important, so if you feel it, just let yourself relax. Falling in love is like a jump in the water if you are afraid you will be clumsy, under stress, and full of fear. Stop wondering what will be and why the previous relationship went wrong.  Offer some magic, because l...

Ignorance is the sister of disrespect. It closely relates to them. If a person ignores you, it means you are not worthy of their time. It happens to everyone.  Don't believe it when someone says "I am busy", as an excuse. Yes, we are all busy, and we live with a busy schedule, but the day is long 24 hours and during this time we made priorities. So, guess are you on the priority list if someone ignores you a day, week, or month? The answer is no. When you wish to hear news from someone or stay in contact, you will make an attempt. It means you will use any reason to stay in contact.  When you don't wish to stay in contact, you will do an excuse. Everything will be more important to you. Even your cat's crap in the basket will be on the priority list before a person you wish to ignore. Girls will often ask what to do when a guy who is their crush ignores them? Girls, you need to know, that some guys will never break up with you. Some of ...

You wish to attract a certain person. Your vision is about someone who will support you, offer a shoulder for crying, and be someone you can lean on. Instead of this, you got a passive person who will not move a little finger for you. Or you got an egoist who just thinks of himself and his needs. It is wrong to blame a person who is in your life now. You could blame your choice, or research your character. What is inside of you that attracts someone like this?  What kind of impression do you leave? If you are a fragile woman, kind and obedient, you will attract a tough guy who will stand by your side and protect you. If you are a strong, independent woman, you will attract a soft man, phlegmatic or unstable who will give you the freedom to do what you wish, but you can't count on him to stand by you because you can do it better by yourself. The trouble is, what if you are independent and strong, and you wish for an equal partner? Do you need to prete...

Everyone has ex - relationships. We build our experiences through failed relationships; we jump in the romances which will not end well. Maybe we know from the beginning there is no future, but it tempts us. Then we make an attempt and it fails. Every past relationship is not a bitter experience. After we froze our feelings and time pass, we could change our romance to friendship. Yes, that person is still in our life, just with a different role. We are not kissing and cuddling anymore, we just want to be there as support.  There is no problem if we have an agreement. You know where is the line. I will talk to you and you have my loyalty, but it doesn't mean that I will jump in your bed when you get horny. If I was in your bed once, it doesn't mean I must do this forever.  The problem appears when your ex uses your friendship like an intro in a sex adventure. So, I am listening to you, and now I will hug you and you will be mine again. You will be in...

Jealousy is a sting in your heart and soul. You want something that others have.  You wish something that belongs to you accord your beliefs, but someone stole it from you.  You wish to move someone from your spot because his place is not there; he is level under you. A positive person streams to reach the aim. When your head is full of plans and when your schedule is busy, you have no time to check other's lives. You will check what is important to you and connect with you. Recently a woman made a comment under my book even she did not read it. Her eyes stuck in my cover and title and she said that sounds like a horrible book. Personally, I would feel embarrassed to comment on something I did not read. It just showed the level of her intelligence and bad manners. And do you know when she commented? On Saturday, when people get rest from the week and have a relaxing time.  Envious and jealous people often use a weekend to throw their da...

It nauseated him. She gave him water to feel better. His lips were dry. He puked in a washbowl, and she courage him to continue, to clean his body from the poison. This was a daily routine after weekend parties. The rest of the day he was sleeping to recover himself.  Sally remembered last night. She was also drinking. 1,2,3,5 or more beers, who count? At first, everything was better. The lights in the club were fabulous, she was a dancing queen and guys looked at her. Later, she went to pee, and the toilet was full of ladies in the line. The fuck , she thought, why should she wait in the line with some bimbos? She was aggressive. She could not wait. She peed outside in the ambush. Then her boyfriend asked her something, she did not hear him. She kicked the wall of an abandoned coffee bar with her feet. "Stop, you will break the window. " Sally was aggressive, and they fought. She remembered everything 6 hours later. Now, Sally is looking at her sleepy...

Your partner is your choice. He is your source of joy or sadness, problems, or enjoyment, whatever takes. Recently I read a story about conflict on the Instagram profile. Domagoj Vida, a famous Croatian football player, is married to Ivana, ex-Miss Universe of Croatia. She is very active on Instagram and a follower said to her that her husband is ugly and that she has a good stomach because she is his wife. She replied harshly and searched for the address of the mean follower, which was a woman. People are mean. Also, people got jealous and envious when someone got rich or became famous. They are asking for flaws and imperfections because when a person is the center of attention; we focus all eyes on him or her. I would say differently if I were in Ivana's place. I would say that I adore my husband and that he would not touch that mean girl even with a stick from the far. People who are asking for imperfections on other's partners have serious problems. If s...