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Is it relevant what others think about your partner?



Your partner is your choice. He is your source of joy or sadness, problems, or enjoyment, whatever takes.
Recently I read a story about conflict on the Instagram profile. Domagoj Vida, a famous Croatian football player, is married to Ivana, ex-Miss Universe of Croatia. She is very active on Instagram and a follower said to her that her husband is ugly and that she has a good stomach because she is his wife. She replied harshly and searched for the address of the mean follower, which was a woman.

People are mean. Also, people got jealous and envious when someone got rich or became famous. They are asking for flaws and imperfections because when a person is the center of attention; we focus all eyes on him or her. I would say differently if I were in Ivana's place. I would say that I adore my husband and that he would not touch that mean girl even with a stick from the far.
People who are asking for imperfections on other's partners have serious problems.
If someone is not paying your bills, what is the reason to insult him?
Where is the source of such jealousy?

Gossipers are unhappy people. Internet trolls need attention, and they will try to gain this with provocative thoughts and toxic comments.

What does this girl want?

She wanted eyes focused on her.
She wanted a public interest.
She wanted to humiliate another person because she is insecure inside.

I have no habit to comment under famous profiles because it is a waste of time. Also, if someone has a bad opinion about my partner, I will not care about this. This is my choice, and I need not explain to anybody why I chose him.
If you try to justify your romantic choices, you will fall into the trap. Remember, always there will be someone who will think bad about your guy. A jealous ex-boyfriend. A jealous woman. Your jealous workmate who is single.
Smile and walk with him in front of envious people.  One hug and a kiss are enough to make jealous people angrier. You don't have to say anything, love speaks about itself.

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