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My book : What does it mean to be black sheep?

Having a problem to fit in, I was searching for solutions. So, I wrote a self-help book about different level of rebellion.  Whatever you believe,  you can live if you don't accept conformism. Feeling that you don't fit in? Everyone turns back to you? You are blamed for everything? You are a black sheep and accept your label. Check out my book in Amazon. Short stories about rebels. The review :  Ever felt like you don’t fit in? Don’t worry, help is at hand. This great self-help book by Kristina Gallo is all about being not fitting in and feeling like the “black sheep.” Kristina teaches us that you don’t have to change yourself to fit certain situations and people. When we do this, we start to lose a sense of our true self. Fitting in can feel like the easier option, but does it challenge us to do new things and grow as people? I recommend reading this book if you’ve ever felt like the black sheep in your family or place of work. There’s a great chapter on how to build sel...

Indie authors: 5 ways how to motivate yourself

When you are an indie author, it is like everything is against you. Amazon rules, trolls who write negative reviews, expensive editing, and readers' ignorance. Many people started to write and gave up, because of a lack of motivation. How to motivate yourself when there are big chances that you will never sell more than five books in a month? 5 reasons that motivated me are next: Show that you can to those who underestimated you. I was in the situation when I experienced how is to be without support, surrounded by people who disliked me. My keyboard was my only friend. Expel your traumas . If you feel that there is a secret inside of you, embarrassing or hard to tell, you can write. Make a story with fictional characters, play with their destinies and you will feel illuminated. You have an audience. Look at your ratings, reviews. First time I got reviews I was very happy. Wow, someone read my books. It might not be the audience I dreamed about, but a group of people read my books...

Why you should not force your plans and wishes?

  If you wish for something really hard, take a step back.  Remember the day when you wanted something so badly and you felt you will die if you don't get it. That day, you made pressure on your wishes and plans. You were in a state of despair. You did not have plan B. Fear ruled with you because you did not reconsider, what will happen if those wishes don't realize? Let's assume you forgot what you wanted the most. Time passed, you were busy, and those wishes are pushed into the background.  Suddenly, your dream is a reality. The guy who did not notice you invited you on the date. You found a job even though you gave up on it. New opportunities appeared, even if you did not ask for them. Your energy guides. If your energy is negative, that means you are full of fear, anger, and rage. Then you can't deal with rejections, you are attacking everyone who disagrees with you, and you are self-destructive. If you are calm and don't expect too much there is no pressure. Th...

5 kinds of obstacles to your success

If you ask yourself, why your progress is too slow and why you are still standing in the place, make the analysis inside of you. It is not a curse and a lack of powerful acquaintances. It is not a high force. These factors stand in your way: Fear. You are afraid of what you might be. You are not aware of this, but imagine that you are in public now? Are you trembling? Are you afraid to lose privacy? Shyness.  You are afraid to ask someone to help you. You are insecure about your qualities. You think others are better than you. Ego.  You think you know all the best, but collaboration is necessary. You don't want to admit mistakes. Fake friends.  Cut off all connections with doubters. Empty promises.  Don't believe those who say to help you and then hesitate. The promise is a deadline factor. Now or never. Clean your path even it means sacrificing and isolating yourself. Nobody succeeds in the crowd and in a noisy atmosphere. You...