Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

Finding the right one was always the base of romantic relationships. Searching for a man who will love you and care about you is not an easy task. If you had a plan how to find a great man, surely this plan failed. Love is a spontaneous act, a planning a community with an appropriate partner might be a problematic path. If you ask women what kind of guys they met before they got married, they will talk about various experiences. I would love to say that I had a few nice relationships before I got married, but it was not the case. Like when you search for a diamond, you will find jewelry with a fake gloss, that looks like a bar of gold, and it is far away from gold. It would be only rocking with fake glittery. 5 kinds of men who will not get you serious: A man for a one-night stand. Every man will compliment you, trying to get you in the bed. His intentions are only focused on sex and nothing more. A man with Peter's Pan syndrome. A man who wants to have fun until his forties, and a...

Sparks are born from conflicts in relationships, they woke up passionate moments. Every time you are arguing with the opposite gender, there is a root of attraction.  Can you remember how your relationships started? Or do you have a connection with someone you did not start anything yet, but you wish you did? Fighting, swearing, and insulting is a situation when partners express their displeasure, but it doesn't mean it will get better. If someone you like constantly insults you, it doesn't mean he cares about you. On the opposite, this person wishes to obey you or humiliate you, to make you an object in your relationship. A person who cares about you will tease you or provoke, you but never insult you. Insulting someone you like might show your immaturity, it makes difference between a boy and a man. While the boy is making insults, threatening, or leaving the battlefield in silence, a mature man will show balance and a firm attitude. The situation where you two are constantly...

Your choice is your curse. The moment you fell in love with someone you will define your destiny. The object of your desire, something you crave is your master. Many women fell in love with guys who are abusive, or bossy. There is something in harsh attitude, sexy vibrations when someone throws orders. Especially insecure women with a lack of self-confidence will see a savior in a dangerous guy, who knows what he wants and how to get it. Unfortunately, that description is only a shallow view of a man who wants to control women. How to recognize signs that you love an abuser, even if he doesn't beat you? He always has the right attitude. If you have your opinion, he will consider you a stupid one. If you try to have a conflict with him, he will attack you and insult you. He will block you from every attempt to negotiate with him. He will find your replacement, a woman who agrees with him. His abusive behavior could be insulting, humiliating, and underestimating a woman who is with h...

The basic rule of a relationship is the participation of both sides. When it comes to conversation, pay attention to who is sending messages first. If you are one who always asks your partner how is he and what can you do for him, and he is passive, then it is a one-sided relationship. The same rule is for friendship. Look at this situation. You are always remembering a friend's birthday. You are here to listen to her problems. If she needs a favor, she will run to you. What about you? How many dead plants are you watering? So, he is not answering, ignoring you, and then it comes to your feedback. "What is wrong? Are you angry? Why don't you talk to me?" Forcing your answer, you might get the next reaction: "Are you crazy? What do you want from me?" Or you might get a block. It took a long time that me to realize how not all people are the same. When I am leaving, I will explain my reasons. Some people prefer ghosting. They leave in silence and close their d...

Egotrip is a punishment for those who have it. Let's suppose you are an educated person, a geek, young and ambitious and the world is under your feet. At least, you are thinking so. You might think you have perks to look down on others. The moment you underestimate your competition is your weak moment. This is a game between David and Goliath, and the strongest will not always win. If you are a man, a woman can beat you. If you are pretty, a less attractive woman can steal your man. If you are young, older competition can beat you. You can never know what kind of card someone holds in their pocket. If you have a sword, be careful at the moment when you use that word, it can turn against you.  Forgiveness is not always a value. Not everyone will forget and forgive what you did to them. Karma and paycheck are bad guys who will hit you from the corner when you don't expect this. Everyone has a boiling point, be careful where you are standing. Someone doesn't like mockery. Some...

Never let someone build your ego in a way that you are chasing him. I know a woman in love will do many crazy things but don't let a man knows that you are interested in him. The less he knows, your chances to be with him are bigger. The more he knows, the easier you fall on his charm, your chances are lower. Once he gets you, he will ask for a new challenge. It doesn't mean that you should not show any interest in him. Your ways should be sophisticated, you can approach him without the pressure that he owes you something. In this way, your message is clear, so he is not obligated to you, but he has a choice.  What you should do to show interest but not get embarrassed? Tell him jokes. Be busy. Busy women are sexy. Talk about ordinary things. Don't make drama because you sound desperate. Smile and look pretty. Untidy women are not attractive. A sad face is not desirable. Surround yourself with friends. If you hate every...