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Stop people who wish to make you feel inferior

The reason why someone should make you feel inferior always exists. The roots could be deep in his personality, in his character, or in competition. If a woman wants to steal your man, she will gossip about you. "She is ugly, stupid, poor, promiscuous." If someone wants to steal your job, he will try to make you humiliated. "He is lazy, unable to do this job, and his skills are zero." If someone denies your talent, he will say that you need help from an expert or minorize your values. Also, the person will ask for money to develop your talent.  Success is not for weak people. As Dostojevski said: "Don't stand to hit every dog in your path with a rock ." No, you have no time for this .  Envy and jealousy will make your opponent weak. He will slow down his progress, while you will go faster.  Success is focused on progress. We are going toward the future, not toward the past. Don't look back, you are not going that way. If I would t...

Do you need a hug?

" I am strong. I am independent. I know how to deal with things alone. " How many times have you heard of this sentence? Some people are ashamed of their emotions, they refuse to admit that they need support when life becomes hard. They are craving a hug, but they will not ask for help. They are afraid of reactions, it is not socially acceptable to show your emotions. "Hey, this is life. Squeeze your teeth and go on with your obligations. Nobody cares anyway. " The perception of weakness is wrongly understood . It is very cool and popular to say that you are a strong woman who refuses men, but if you say that you need a hug people will mock you because this is a kind of weakness. I f you look behind the surface, you understand that being weak in some circumstances could be an advantage. If you admit your real feelings, you will reveal your emotional side. This is not bad, emotional people are passionate, creative, and empathetic.  If yo...