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Do you need a hug?

" I am strong. I am independent. I know how to deal with things alone. " How many times have you heard of this sentence? Some people are ashamed of their emotions, they refuse to admit that they need support when life becomes hard. They are craving a hug, but they will not ask for help. They are afraid of reactions, it is not socially acceptable to show your emotions. "Hey, this is life. Squeeze your teeth and go on with your obligations. Nobody cares anyway. " The perception of weakness is wrongly understood . It is very cool and popular to say that you are a strong woman who refuses men, but if you say that you need a hug people will mock you because this is a kind of weakness. I f you look behind the surface, you understand that being weak in some circumstances could be an advantage. If you admit your real feelings, you will reveal your emotional side. This is not bad, emotional people are passionate, creative, and empathetic.  If yo

Do you think unattractive men don't cheat?

Recently I saw on Facebook a photo of a handsome male model. Someone posted this like the intro in a debate club. The question was: “Would you choose a handsome man who will cheat you or a less attractive man who will be faithful?” It was a shallow argument because it reveals prejudice. So, if a man is a handsome one, he will cheat? If he is not handsome, he will be faithful? At first, is necessary to make a definition of what is indeed handsome. Here are some standards, but not every woman is attracted to a male model. I will say that he looks gorgeous, but it doesn’t make him attractive to me, because it takes more than a good look to attract me. The truth is, if your beloved man is attractive, he will gain more attention. Girls will approach him, they will call him and he will have a wider choice. Here is the opportunity, he can pick whether to cheat or not. If he is truly interested in one woman, he will not cheat. If he is not collecting numbers he will stand in