Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

  If you wish for something really hard, take a step back.  Remember the day when you wanted something so badly and you felt you will die if you don't get it. That day, you made pressure on your wishes and plans. You were in a state of despair. You did not have plan B. Fear ruled with you because you did not reconsider, what will happen if those wishes don't realize? Let's assume you forgot what you wanted the most. Time passed, you were busy, and those wishes are pushed into the background.  Suddenly, your dream is a reality. The guy who did not notice you invited you on the date. You found a job even though you gave up on it. New opportunities appeared, even if you did not ask for them. Your energy guides. If your energy is negative, that means you are full of fear, anger, and rage. Then you can't deal with rejections, you are attacking everyone who disagrees with you, and you are self-destructive. If you are calm and don't expect too much there is no pressure. Th

When your friend is a man, you must set up your boundaries. Especially if your friend is your ex-lover or boyfriend.  Sometimes a man will not accept the word NO as an answer to his desires, but the word MAYBE  will get him confused. For example, you want friendship; he wants a relationship. You want respect; he wants sex. You maybe want it later, but he is not ready to wait, and he doesn't have patience.  If you once accepted him as a lover, you may change your mind. Carmen and Oliver had a short adventure. The next time they met, she was not in the mood to make love with him. Everything was fun on the first date, but he was cheap now in her eyes. She felt she deserves more. She wanted conversation, admiration, and respect, and Oliver offered just his unzipped pants. His behavior was unacceptable. Even worse, he looked lame in her eyes, like he lost dignity. He was like an animal, and she was not in a mood to deal with animals. It was too raw and primitive for her ta

Do you know the feeling when you wish to be with someone, but it is not possible? The reasons might be various. He is at a big distance. He is not single. He doesn't love you back. The conclusion is the same. He can't be your partner. Despite all the obstacles, you still want him. I obsess you with the thought to be with him, even for a short. If you can get only a moment, it would make you happy. Emotional fixation is a state when you focus on a certain person, but you know that is only an illusion that will not turn into reality. Making a dream with open eyes is your escape from the daily routine.  Why you are doing this? You feel alone even you are in a relationship. Your life did not justify your expectations. You have a strong imagination. You can be alone with yourself. The object of emotional fixation is a person you like. In your imagination, he is a hero with a magic stick who will make all things perfect.  Emotional fixati

Do you see between lines when it comes to romance? Do you mix real love with a fake sugarcoated story?  Do you want to see what you wish to see? The romance could be only in your fantasies. You might make an image of an ideal person and gain some expectations, but when you woke up nothing of it existed. The one who loves you want the whole image of you. He knows how you look without makeup. He understands when you are struggling with your weight. He understands why you are crying when things are not well. He knows why you are angry. He listens and observes.  He sits with you in the dark. The one who only likes you: He wants to see your best edition. He is not interested in why you have black thoughts. He doesn't want to listen to your problems. He has no time for your depression. He wants you physically, but he doesn't see under your surface. Sometimes, affection is a substitute for the words of love, but nice words have a purp

" I am strong. I am independent. I know how to deal with things alone. " How many times have you heard of this sentence? Some people are ashamed of their emotions, they refuse to admit that they need support when life becomes hard. They are craving a hug, but they will not ask for help. They are afraid of reactions, it is not socially acceptable to show your emotions. "Hey, this is life. Squeeze your teeth and go on with your obligations. Nobody cares anyway. " The perception of weakness is wrongly understood . It is very cool and popular to say that you are a strong woman who refuses men, but if you say that you need a hug people will mock you because this is a kind of weakness. I f you look behind the surface, you understand that being weak in some circumstances could be an advantage. If you admit your real feelings, you will reveal your emotional side. This is not bad, emotional people are passionate, creative, and empathetic.  If yo