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Do you mix love and affection?



Do you see between lines when it comes to romance?
Do you mix real love with a fake sugarcoated story? 
Do you want to see what you wish to see?
The romance could be only in your fantasies. You might make an image of an ideal person and gain some expectations, but when you woke up nothing of it existed.

The one who loves you want the whole image of you.

He knows how you look without makeup.
He understands when you are struggling with your weight.
He understands why you are crying when things are not well.
He knows why you are angry.
He listens and observes. 
He sits with you in the dark.


The one who only likes you:

He wants to see your best edition.
He is not interested in why you have black thoughts.
He doesn't want to listen to your problems.
He has no time for your depression.
He wants you physically, but he doesn't see under your surface.


Sometimes, affection is a substitute for the words of love, but nice words have a purpose. It creates confusion for these words to make an illusion. 

You will hear what you want to hear, but your image is not clear because your heart makes an unreal story. This guy was talking nicely to you because he is polite or professional at the workplace. Maybe you like him and you will consider it as a flirt.

Real love is not always beautiful. Real love doesn't need justification, because every couple is a unique story.

Fake love is never permanent. You don't need to search for it, a mask will fall down, eventually. 

The one who stayed with you in a world of problems and darkness is loyal. He wants to be in your hell rather than in others' paradise.




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