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You can't change a man's personality

There is a quote: You can't bake a cake from shit. That is how is with a man's nature: you can't change a bad personality. If you are hanging out with a man who is primitive, uneducated, and promiscuous, you can't expect to turn him into a noble gentleman.  Women who claim to change a man's personality, lie. They live in illusion because if the change happened, it is not because they did it. Reasons why men change their attitude are: They passed through a bad breakup or divorce. They got old. They feel lonely. They are mature and tired of games and flirting. They fall in love with younger women. When his time comes, a man will do basic things to change his approach to relationships. He could pretend to catch young women, rich women, or get rid of bad habits. Sometimes, this is cruelty: he was using women for sex in the past, now he is acting like a gentle daddy to his child. Women will be mean and said "I was the right ...

Sometimes women don't know what they want from men

When your friend is a man, you must set up your boundaries. Especially if your friend is your ex-lover or boyfriend.  Sometimes a man will not accept the word NO as an answer to his desires, but the word MAYBE  will get him confused. For example, you want friendship; he wants a relationship. You want respect; he wants sex. You maybe want it later, but he is not ready to wait, and he doesn't have patience.  If you once accepted him as a lover, you may change your mind. Carmen and Oliver had a short adventure. The next time they met, she was not in the mood to make love with him. Everything was fun on the first date, but he was cheap now in her eyes. She felt she deserves more. She wanted conversation, admiration, and respect, and Oliver offered just his unzipped pants. His behavior was unacceptable. Even worse, he looked lame in her eyes, like he lost dignity. He was like an animal, and she was not in a mood to deal with animals. It was too raw and primitive ...

How to seduce the alpha man ?

What happens when a man finds a woman equal to him? It means she can reply sharply to his demands and she will not obey. Usually, alpha men did not use such women, because they prefer gentle ladies who will shut up and smile in accord with their wishes. Ken and Tina always found a reason for conflict. He was egocentric and believed he knew everything the best. Tina has a good education, and she is hot-tempered. She could not allow a man to underestimate her. Even though they argued, they attracted each other. Ken learned to give her respect, and Tina learned to stay silent when it is necessary. How to seduce the alpha man? Let him believe that he is the boss. Stay calm. Alpha men don't like hysterical women. Surprise him by giving him an opportunity to negotiate. His ego will be pleased, and I will not destroy your dignity. Smile and believe in yourself. A woman who smiles is sexy. I turn the crying woman off. Don't follow him if he did...

What does it mean to feel goosebumps?

Every person has something that turns her on. That is why certain men have no chance because they use the wrong approach. I love silence and distance, but also I love constructive conflicts. That is something that creates goosebumps.  Aggressive and pushy men were always turned off  for me. Bossy men who watch all women as the same never attracted me.  What happens in the body structure when we feel goosebumps? Short breath. Faster heartbeats. Blushing cheeks. Trembling voice. All these are signs of chemistry that can't be fake.  When Alisa saw Ken after a long time, it confused her. What to say without sounding stupid? If she will be open, it will look like an easy target. If she will be silent and distanced, that will have the wrong impact, like she is not interested. Intuition told her what to do. She did not make a plan. She talked about the usual things and used a smile. Ken looked at her with big excitement. He was hungry like a beast. He w...

Why some men think about women as their property?

When a man is handsome, it is his advantage. Many doors will open to him, and many women will ask for his attention. What makes a difference is how that man uses his attraction, in a bad or a good way? Some guys act like morons. They will use their sexy appearance to treat women like cheap trash. They will try to use them just for sex and then throw them. They will use rich women to get money, young women to use their naivete, and depressed women to make them happy. The Internet is a heaven for men with evil attention. Here how the story goes: "I am handsome, I can get every woman. I will follow her, like her photos, and ask for Whatssup. Then I will ask her for naked photos. After that, I will call her to see her naked. Then, if it is possible, I will ask for a real meeting, to fuck her." If a man thinks that things will go smooth, he is in misguide. A smart woman will ignore him, and if he is persistent, he will say him to back off and block him. S...

Relationships: The affair is based on sparks

She made him feel purer. He felt urged to change his lifestyle. Behind him were a bunch of women, but many of them were dirty. A long time ago he was in this desperate club. There were people who were drowning, and nobody gave them a straw. Any woman was welcomed to his arms. It doesn't matter if she was old, poor, ugly, stupid, or mean, she was a woman gender and all this mattered.  That relationships were a field of damage for him. His friends, family, watched over him like he has a plague. Nobody liked to socialize with him at his workplace because his reputation was not good.  One day she came. She was distanced, but without any judgment. She knew how is to feel isolated, so she accepted him as a man. He recovered to her his wonderful soul. His loyalty, kindness, well-mannered behavior was not just a mask. It was a skin he recovered only for her because she stood on his side. She defended him in front of the judgmental crowd.  These women were hun...

What if he wants you only to use you?

Do you know how to make a difference between a guy who likes you and a guy who loves you? Many women make mistakes by listening to compliments from guys who only want to drag them to bed. A woman's vanity will blossom when a guy says: "You are so different from other women." Indeed, this is his tricky way to get what he wants because he likes you and you are a suitable temporary match, but he doesn't want to be obligated to you. To simplify this, I will say that a man might want many women to have sex, but just one to love her and care about her. Did you already hear this story? "You look very beautiful tonight. I am burning for you. You are sexy." Later on, it could be another story. "I thought this is only the adventure. I am not ready for something serious at this moment." If you get only silence and there is no response, this is a response for you. You were not important to him otherwise he would call you...

Do you think unattractive men don't cheat?

Recently I saw on Facebook a photo of a handsome male model. Someone posted this like the intro in a debate club. The question was: “Would you choose a handsome man who will cheat you or a less attractive man who will be faithful?” It was a shallow argument because it reveals prejudice. So, if a man is a handsome one, he will cheat? If he is not handsome, he will be faithful? At first, is necessary to make a definition of what is indeed handsome. Here are some standards, but not every woman is attracted to a male model. I will say that he looks gorgeous, but it doesn’t make him attractive to me, because it takes more than a good look to attract me. The truth is, if your beloved man is attractive, he will gain more attention. Girls will approach him, they will call him and he will have a wider choice. Here is the opportunity, he can pick whether to cheat or not. If he is truly interested in one woman, he will not cheat. If he is not collecting numbers he will stand in ...