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What does it mean to feel goosebumps?

Every person has something that turns her on. That is why certain men have no chance because they use the wrong approach. I love silence and distance, but also I love constructive conflicts. That is something that creates goosebumps.  Aggressive and pushy men were always turned off  for me. Bossy men who watch all women as the same never attracted me.  What happens in the body structure when we feel goosebumps? Short breath. Faster heartbeats. Blushing cheeks. Trembling voice. All these are signs of chemistry that can't be fake.  When Alisa saw Ken after a long time, it confused her. What to say without sounding stupid? If she will be open, it will look like an easy target. If she will be silent and distanced, that will have the wrong impact, like she is not interested. Intuition told her what to do. She did not make a plan. She talked about the usual things and used a smile. Ken looked at her with big excitement. He was hungry like a beast. He w...

Do you mix love and affection?

Do you see between lines when it comes to romance? Do you mix real love with a fake sugarcoated story?  Do you want to see what you wish to see? The romance could be only in your fantasies. You might make an image of an ideal person and gain some expectations, but when you woke up nothing of it existed. The one who loves you want the whole image of you. He knows how you look without makeup. He understands when you are struggling with your weight. He understands why you are crying when things are not well. He knows why you are angry. He listens and observes.  He sits with you in the dark. The one who only likes you: He wants to see your best edition. He is not interested in why you have black thoughts. He doesn't want to listen to your problems. He has no time for your depression. He wants you physically, but he doesn't see under your surface. Sometimes, affection is a substitute for the words of love, but nice words have ...

Is his compliment real?

Many women fall on flattering. Even the coldest woman will blush when someone hits her weak spot. It is good when a handsome man praises you, isn’t it? Well, women like to compete. This race is a mix of jealousy, envy, or just food for the ego. He looks at me, not at her. He wants me, not that woman. He chooses me in front of many women. I am special. When the rain of compliments falls from a man’s mouth, you must ask yourself, how real are these compliments? Men could flatter you for many reasons. They do it formally because you are his neighbor, a colleague, maybe a boss.  Oh, nice haircut. Well, a lovely skirt. You look good today. They do it to drag you into the bed . This chick is a piece of candy, I wish to have sex with her. Nice smile. Sexy legs. If this compliment considers sexy, beware. If you are not already close to him, maybe he wants to step further. They do it to every woman, to practice their seduction skills.  He said to me I have eyes l...