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Don't let people waste your time and energy

If anyone asked me what is most important before a few years, I would have different answers than now. I did not appreciate my time and peace enough. I let in my life people who did not deserve it. After I cut it off, I realized how much clean space I have for others who deserve that spot. How can you know who is the right friend for you, and who is not? It sounds so simple, but it is not. You can’t know someone at first sight. Everyone tries to represent in the best light, hiding flaws like snakes are hiding legs. When you know the person better, some things swim out on the surface and the previous diamond loses its shine. That is why is not good to glorify people, they will screw you. How do you know that a person wastes your time and energy? A person who talks only about herself.  I was there, this happened to me, that guy adores me, etc. A person who talks with underestimation about your problems.  Oh, that is nothing. I survived worse than that. A person who does

Is it relevant what others think about your partner?

Your partner is your choice. He is your source of joy or sadness, problems, or enjoyment, whatever takes. Recently I read a story about conflict on the Instagram profile. Domagoj Vida, a famous Croatian football player, is married to Ivana, ex-Miss Universe of Croatia. She is very active on Instagram and a follower said to her that her husband is ugly and that she has a good stomach because she is his wife. She replied harshly and searched for the address of the mean follower, which was a woman. People are mean. Also, people got jealous and envious when someone got rich or became famous. They are asking for flaws and imperfections because when a person is the center of attention; we focus all eyes on him or her. I would say differently if I were in Ivana's place. I would say that I adore my husband and that he would not touch that mean girl even with a stick from the far. People who are asking for imperfections on other's partners have serious problems. If s

Is his compliment real?

Many women fall on flattering. Even the coldest woman will blush when someone hits her weak spot. It is good when a handsome man praises you, isn’t it? Well, women like to compete. This race is a mix of jealousy, envy, or just food for the ego. He looks at me, not at her. He wants me, not that woman. He chooses me in front of many women. I am special. When the rain of compliments falls from a man’s mouth, you must ask yourself, how real are these compliments? Men could flatter you for many reasons. They do it formally because you are his neighbor, a colleague, maybe a boss.  Oh, nice haircut. Well, a lovely skirt. You look good today. They do it to drag you into the bed . This chick is a piece of candy, I wish to have sex with her. Nice smile. Sexy legs. If this compliment considers sexy, beware. If you are not already close to him, maybe he wants to step further. They do it to every woman, to practice their seduction skills.  He said to me I have eyes like the o

Why she doesn't reply on your message?

I know that many guys ask for love on the internet. Also, these guys are confused when women ignore them. They expect too much without knowing the real reasons behind a woman's ignorance. To entertain you and to make you look different in this story, I am offering you a key to a woman's brain. These are the reasons: She is already in a relationship. Guys will not give up always when a woman is in marriage. Just have on your mind that her husband is a maybe dangerous guy. She is busy. If a woman is a business lady or very popular, you will lose in the mist. Who are you she needs to reply to? She wants her peace and privacy . Listen. Maybe she had a bad day, or she is full of obligations or problems so she doesn't need the immature pest who will annoy her. She is talking to someone else. Yes, what do you have in your mind? She already chose a guy, and this is not you. Now dear guys, when I illuminated you don't force a conversation with

It doesn't matter if you are not a chosen one

When you are chosen , you have certain benefits. Someone is eliminated because it chooses you. Someone is in the second place because you took the first one. Someone is in the background because you are sitting in the first line. We all like to be chosen by someone or for something. If I ask you why you are chosen , you say that you deserve it. You deserve a promotion; you deserve a proposal; you deserve the crown. If you are chosen by someone's free will, this is your privilege. What happens when you are not the chosen one? You wanted to be someone's friend, but they rejected you. You wanted to date this special person, but he/she refuses your offer. How you will accept the word NO depends on your maturity and your attitude. If you accept this quick, without questions, you are free to go forward. For me, it has no sense to insist on if someone did not choose me. The world is big, full of people who want to be my friends and if someone did not see my qua