Do you think fighting in relationships means love?

Love sparks are born from conflicts in relationships, they woke up passionate moments. Every time you are arguing with the opposite gender, there is a root of attraction.

Can you remember how your relationships started? Or do you have a connection with someone you did not start anything yet, but you wish you did?

Fighting, swearing, and insulting is a situation when partners express their displeasure, but it doesn't mean it will get better.

If someone you like constantly insults you, it doesn't mean he cares about you. On the opposite, this person wishes to obey you or humiliate you, to make you an object in your relationship.

A person who cares about you will tease you or provoke, you but never insult you.

Insulting someone you like might show your immaturity, it makes difference between a boy and a man.

While the boy is making insults, threatening, or leaving the battlefield in silence, a mature man will show balance and a firm attitude.

The situation where you two are constantly arguing can bring chemistry and sparks, sex might be a great thing, but it doesn't make your relationship smooth or mature.

"What would we do without arguments? It would be boring. " some women will say.

Peace and boredom are two different things and you can't bring them in the same basket. Imagine you have a guy who is underestimating you and trying to fix things with his great skills in bed. Every time you chill out from excellent sex you will remember his insults.

What we should never mention in our conflicts?

Mocking about the physical look.

Our parents and family.

Secrets that partners share in confidence.

Treating with beating and physical conflicts.

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