You heard about this story already: "I want the relationship without the obligation. " This is how a man turns on his defensive mechanism when he doesn't want to commit to a woman.
He wants immediately to clear all conditions:
I am not obligated to be faithful.
I am not obligated to reply to your messages.
Don't expect calls from me.
I am not obligated to marry you.
Even if some women will accept such a "relationship" when they fall in love, a man could have problems.
Some women are persistent, they don't want to accept the fact that love is one-sided. So they give without return, invest, expect, and dream about a change of attitude.
They don't hear, they read between lines.
"I can't be faithful in the beginning but when I realize how awesome are you, I will stop chasing other women. "
"I will reply to your messages because with time you will miss me."
"I will call you to check how are you."
"I will marry you because you became my habit and I can't imagine life without you."
Women create dangerous illusions. When the relationship fails, they blame the guy. In some theories, there is no relationship without obligations.
Here are the facts:
Men are obligated to be polite to a woman if he wants to make love with her.
He is obligated to flatter if he wants to feel beautiful and horny to give him the sex he wanted.
A man is obligated to hide the truth if he lies about his private status, so he will lie he is single if he wishes to drag a woman to bed.
Men are obligated to keep some connections with their mistresses because they want them to keep their mouths shouted.
Every man who thinks that is easy to be a playboy and to use women, one by one for a one-night stand is wrong. Women could create many problems because no woman will easily accept being humiliated.
A guy who thinks that women are numbers and toys is naive. If a woman got pregnant and he doesn't want it, he will pay the price sooner or later.
I know the story about a guy who seduced many women, beautiful and sexy, but then he slept with a fat woman who was not pretty and she got pregnant. After some doubts, he married her because of her child. He had mistresses during the marriage and nowadays he is an invalid and his fat wife is taking care of him.
Well, be careful who is your catch, some might bite.
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