Everyone likes praises. If it comes from the person you like, that is a gift without an envelope. What if you are on an unwanted target?
See how you react to someone who is not dear to you.
Are you flattered when someone gives you a compliment?
Your cheeks blush on every kind of compliment and from anyone?
I don't think so. You probably have a vision of your love or you are already in love, and you care what will your awesome person say. What happens when you get a stalker, an unwanted fan who doesn't want to give up from you? That is really annoying. You want to get rid of that nerd with glasses or you want that fat girl get lost from your eyes, but you are subject to their desires. They won't give up just like that.
You can get a bunch of messages, request for your Facebook and another social network, your fan is here to follow you and that unwanted face jump out from every corner. Wow, almost you can feel like a celebrity, just you need a jumbo picture in his room.
So what to do next?
You may be harsh and reject unwanted love.
You can pretend that a person doesn't exist.
Or, if that person is not so bad looking you can play the game with him or her.
Raise your ego, make comfort if you can't find something you really want. Well, here you can find yourself in a danger zone.
You may be harsh and reject unwanted love.
You can pretend that a person doesn't exist.
Or, if that person is not so bad looking you can play the game with him or her.
Raise your ego, make comfort if you can't find something you really want. Well, here you can find yourself in a danger zone.
There was a girl from my city, she felt sorry for this guy who was so resistant, but mentally sick. And she went to drink coffee with him but he wrong misunderstands her kindness. And he became her shadow. One night he killed her in an elevator. Her body was found on the first day of the New year.
That tragedy shocked people from my city, and everybody talked about this, how could it be a different end. If he was on time in a mental hospital. If she denied him more firmly. If she just told anyone about this stalker.
The point is, giving wrong signals to someone can make confusion. If you don't want, make it clear. If you don't know, don't decide until you will know.
I think we can't love the wrong reasons, because we are lonely, rejected by someone else, or we want to be popular. If heart says no, listen and act accord wishes of your heart. Use your brain to draw a line, kind of border which some people cannot cross without your permission.