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Why everyone want to be the influencer?




Many girls are publishing their photos on Instagram every day in the hope to get money. Recently Italian Influencer called the police because it deleted her Instagram profile. She said that is like murder because they killed her business. She said that she spent her money quick on Gucci products.

When I finished the college, I was working voluntarily for one year on the court. I got only travel expenses, but I worked as others, paid employers. Later on, I waited a year at home to get a real job; I sent 25 requests for the job; I was on 10 job interviews and it took a lot of nerves and patience.

Nowadays many young people are lazy, and they want to get money easily. It spoils those who succeed, and much news is about addictions, suicides, or heart attacks that affect people in their twenties. They don't know to appreciate money.

Those who can't succeed are disappointed and complain about a stroke of bad luck. It is not pleasant to take your photos several times, expose this on Instagram, and get haters later. I got a few times a dick photo in my inbox. I pity those perverts. 

They can't find a girl in their country so they think Instagram is a dating site or a view from Red lamp street in Amsterdam. I wonder how many reports they get from girls. Really, what someone expects by showing his underwear in the inbox? That I will praise their size? Or heal frustrations because of abstinence? Or to remind someone about their manhood?

Many women use filters so nobody recognizes them in real life if someone sees them. I wonder I am the only one who has eye bags? Why so many faces are with no pimples and so white and pale, like vampires and aliens? No wonder guys are searching for what is natural, and what is only the masterpiece of Photoshop.

Also, taking half-naked photos will make the wrong impression. You never know which kind of pervert you might attract. Instead of fame and money, you need to deal with sick brains; it is difficult, isn't it? For whom you showed a bra and a half-naked butt? 

Every young person should see the value of money, they need to work on a real job. Once they experience how to be rich, they will fall into depression because it can't last forever. 

Also, if you wish to be the influencer, you need to have strong nerves and a good stomach. You need to deal with haters calmly and save your peace. Don't neglect real people around you. 

If you get drown in this virtual world of Photoshop, you might forget those who are near you or lose their affection. 

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