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Why some women play a seductive game, but don't want a relationship




Do you wonder why some women are always elegant, approachable, and kind, so it makes them popular?

At first sight, men will think they are available to flirt. They expose their photos on social networks, you can see them everywhere. She has many followers on Instagram; she is popular on Facebook. She is popular in her workplace. She is a popular neighbor.

Guys with less experience will try to involve with them. It looks like an easy target to get in the bed, they will think. Suddenly, there is a wall. The same woman who smiled at you and talked sweet showed you the way out.
"No, I am not interested in you," she says.


You try again.
"What part of this sentence you don't understand. Get out," she says, rough.

Now, the guy is in doubt. She added him to her page. She liked his photo. She accepted his coffee. Now, she rejects him like he is a toy.

"Damn bitch. " the angry one will say.

We in Croatia have a proverb: "She would fuck with you, but without a penis." It means she wishes to play a game, to act like a seductress, but not because she really wants you.

She likes herself, and she needs food for her ego.

Many women do this, from time to time, to check their charm.

There are various reasons.

She is already over 40. She wants to know is still desirable. 

Her boyfriend, husband, doesn't pay attention to her.

It still hurts her from the previous relationship.

She wants to show her friends, that she is a better seductress than them.


A woman can give confusing signals, but if she is really interested, you will know. She will talk to you and keep in contact continuously. Otherwise, you are just a pawn for her entry into the market. She knows now; she is still in the game, and her charm still works out.


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