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Did your man get you seriously?






Some women believe they should please a man constantly if they want to keep him. G: Bernard Shaw once said: "I would rather choose a nasty woman than a boring one. You wish to kill a nasty one but you don't want to leave her." A woman who can show teeth, to be symbolic, is always an interesting one.


Relationships are the battlefield and men are hunters so different attitudes raise sparks. When a man sees a sassy woman, he will be attracted to her. If a woman acts like a servant and a cook, she is not a challenge if she cleans after him. If she gives all the benefits to her partner, he will soon take her for granted. 

Roger is a playboy. He jumps from one woman to another one, and never stays too long. After he gets what he wishes he is looking for a new opportunity. The only permanent woman in his life is his friend Alice. She advises him and gives him comfort, but also they are fighting from time to time. Sometimes they don't speak at all. Roger would like to have sex with her, but she doesn't want it because she knows about his nature. He desires her but she makes resistance. She said he will change her mind to him if he gets rid of his adventures with other women.

Sometimes is more important to get respect from a man, than to jump in his bed. Respect is permanent, but the desire is a feeling with an expiration date. It could happen that you will not greet each other in the street after a hot night. Respect will always give you space to talk to him about everything because he knows the real you. If a man values you before as a person, it will not be hard to keep him after. At least, you have plenty of topics to talk about.

You could be familiar with stories like "my ex was good in bed, but it was all I can remember about her" or "she was a random slut". Men could be harsh when they talk about women in their past, and your desire could turn against you if you don't control it. 

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