Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

Every person has something that turns her on. That is why certain men have no chance because they use the wrong approach. I love silence and distance, but also I love constructive conflicts. That is something that creates goosebumps.  Aggressive and pushy men were always turned off  for me. Bossy men who watch all women as the same never attracted me.  What happens in the body structure when we feel goosebumps? Short breath. Faster heartbeats. Blushing cheeks. Trembling voice. All these are signs of chemistry that can't be fake.  When Alisa saw Ken after a long time, it confused her. What to say without sounding stupid? If she will be open, it will look like an easy target. If she will be silent and distanced, that will have the wrong impact, like she is not interested. Intuition told her what to do. She did not make a plan. She talked about the usual things and used a smile. Ken looked at her with big excitement. He was hungry like a beast. He w...

Emotional emptiness is worse than a breakup. In the state of a breakup, you will yell, cry, or throw anger outside of you. If you are numb, there is only dead silence. It is hard to feel something. Desires died, this emotional thrill is not present anymore. Now there is a desperate attempt to wake up your desires again. Whoever passed through this state, it is familiar to feel like a paper. Now you are somewhere outside. Do you notice someone, where all the sparks went? Handsome boys are outside, but you don't notice. Someone is winking at you, but you don't care. Someone gave you a compliment, but this is annoying. After a breakup with Gavin, Sylvia emotionally failed. This was a stormy relationship, and she felt like she spent all the energy on him. She was again in the game, but nothing excited her more. She picked up her old friend Sam; he was her fig-bird in the past. He was the ideal partner to comforting her. They made love and Sylvia felt app...

I am walking during my lunch pause. Step by step, I am walking and I almost stood at dog poop. This path is full of dog poop, which I can't avoid, but it opens wide my eyes. If I cross on the other side, there are people with dogs. That dogs are without a leash and I must be careful. The world is full of dogs and people who use them as a tool of power, a blanket for loneliness, and as medication for frustration. I have nothing against dogs, as long they don't bite me. If you have a house, you need a dog against burglars. If you live in a flat, that is different. What do you think about it, is your dog barking too much? What do other people in this building say? The point is, most people don't care about others' rights and opinions. This is my dog, and he is in my flat so I will do what I want. Imagine you get up at work early, but the dog barks at night because his owner left. Or he is hungry, or mad.  These are some people's reactions when y...

In your life, people will reject you. They will say NO because there is no spot for you in someone's life. It happens. People are like in a puzzle game, sometimes you are the piece that doesn't fit in. Your attitude matters. It is not the same as how you accept rejection.  If you yell, scream or treat with revenge, you are childish. If you cry or beg, you are desperate. If you swallow this in silence and don't look back, you are mature. During life, you will lose business opportunities. You will lose partners for relationships. You will lose friends. Even if you are very smart and exquisite, there will always be someone who will say NO. Do you think you can have every man if you are a beautiful woman? You are wrong. Rejection doesn't have to be in NO form, always.  This is also NO between lines: I want you, but only temporarily and sometimes. I want you, but only in my bed. I want you, but only as a second choice. ...

The relationship should start with positive vibes. If you are constantly nagging, talking about your issues or your mood is bad, your partner will have a burden. During development, this relationship will have obstacles, but it should not be at the start. Flavio fell in love with Laura because she did not judge him. She was smiling, looking at him, her feelings burst in the silence. Flavio was a playboy, and women did not get him seriously. Laura thought this at first sight, but she gave him a chance. These steps were slow but progressive. Flavio saw a woman full of energy even though she had a lot of problems. She has the strength, and this attracted him. Start with butterflies. Sparks are important, so if you feel it, just let yourself relax. Falling in love is like a jump in the water if you are afraid you will be clumsy, under stress, and full of fear. Stop wondering what will be and why the previous relationship went wrong.  Offer some magic, because l...

Do you know the feeling when you wish to be with someone, but it is not possible? The reasons might be various. He is at a big distance. He is not single. He doesn't love you back. The conclusion is the same. He can't be your partner. Despite all the obstacles, you still want him. I obsess you with the thought to be with him, even for a short. If you can get only a moment, it would make you happy. Emotional fixation is a state when you focus on a certain person, but you know that is only an illusion that will not turn into reality. Making a dream with open eyes is your escape from the daily routine.  Why you are doing this? You feel alone even you are in a relationship. Your life did not justify your expectations. You have a strong imagination. You can be alone with yourself. The object of emotional fixation is a person you like. In your imagination, he is a hero with a magic stick who will make all things perfect.  Emotional ...

The most successful person is the one who put a curtain over her plans. Nobody knew what is going on, and suddenly stroke of luck hit her.  For sure you heard about the spell of jealousy.  If you say to someone that you like a guy, bad energy can ruin your possible relationship.  If you talk about a business opportunity, envy can ruin this at the start. I know, it is hard to be quiet when you get a chance to make your life better. You want to share happiness with someone, you want to talk about what is going on. Imagine that you have a chance to be with the love of your life, and suddenly it blew. Your confident person will ask what happened to your prince and you will have one problem more. The things others don't know can't hurt you. Maybe you were dumped by someone and nobody knows. Maybe you failed at your work task and nobody knows. Your failures should stay buried and let success make a noise by itself. Making plans in silence have an ad...