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Do you attract wrong people?

You wish to attract a certain person. Your vision is about someone who will support you, offer a shoulder for crying, and be someone you can lean on. Instead of this, you got a passive person who will not move a little finger for you. Or you got an egoist who just thinks of himself and his needs. It is wrong to blame a person who is in your life now. You could blame your choice, or research your character. What is inside of you that attracts someone like this?  What kind of impression do you leave? If you are a fragile woman, kind and obedient, you will attract a tough guy who will stand by your side and protect you. If you are a strong, independent woman, you will attract a soft man, phlegmatic or unstable who will give you the freedom to do what you wish, but you can't count on him to stand by you because you can do it better by yourself. The trouble is, what if you are independent and strong, and you wish for an equal partner? Do you need to prete

Why some women play a seductive game, but don't want a relationship

Do you wonder why some women are always elegant, approachable, and kind, so it makes them popular? At first sight, men will think they are available to flirt. They expose their photos on social networks, you can see them everywhere. She has many followers on Instagram; she is popular on Facebook. She is popular in her workplace. She is a popular neighbor. Guys with less experience will try to involve with them. It looks like an easy target to get in the bed, they will think. Suddenly, there is a wall. The same woman who smiled at you and talked sweet showed you the way out. "No, I am not interested in you," she says. You try again. "What part of this sentence you don't understand. Get out," she says, rough. Now, the guy is in doubt. She added him to her page. She liked his photo. She accepted his coffee. Now, she rejects him like he is a toy. "Damn bitch. " the angry one will say. We in Croatia have a proverb: &q

What does friendship with an ex-boyfriend really mean?

Everyone has ex - relationships. We build our experiences through failed relationships; we jump in the romances which will not end well. Maybe we know from the beginning there is no future, but it tempts us. Then we make an attempt and it fails. Every past relationship is not a bitter experience. After we froze our feelings and time pass, we could change our romance to friendship. Yes, that person is still in our life, just with a different role. We are not kissing and cuddling anymore, we just want to be there as support.  There is no problem if we have an agreement. You know where is the line. I will talk to you and you have my loyalty, but it doesn't mean that I will jump in your bed when you get horny. If I was in your bed once, it doesn't mean I must do this forever.  The problem appears when your ex uses your friendship like an intro in a sex adventure. So, I am listening to you, and now I will hug you and you will be mine again. You will be in my be

5 kinds of obstacles to your success

If you ask yourself, why your progress is too slow and why you are still standing in the place, make the analysis inside of you. It is not a curse and a lack of powerful acquaintances. It is not a high force. These factors stand in your way: Fear. You are afraid of what you might be. You are not aware of this, but imagine that you are in public now? Are you trembling? Are you afraid to lose privacy? Shyness.  You are afraid to ask someone to help you. You are insecure about your qualities. You think others are better than you. Ego.  You think you know all the best, but collaboration is necessary. You don't want to admit mistakes. Fake friends.  Cut off all connections with doubters. Empty promises.  Don't believe those who say to help you and then hesitate. The promise is a deadline factor. Now or never. Clean your path even it means sacrificing and isolating yourself. Nobody succeeds in the crowd and in a noisy atmosphere. Your logic is

Why women should not chase men for relationship?

Never let someone build your ego in a way that you are chasing him. I know a woman in love will do many crazy things but don't let a man knows that you are interested in him. The less he knows, your chances to be with him are bigger. The more he knows, the easier you fall on his charm, your chances are lower. Once he gets you, he will ask for a new challenge. It doesn't mean that you should not show any interest in him. Your ways should be sophisticated, you can approach him without the pressure that he owes you something. In this way, your message is clear, so he is not obligated to you, but he has a choice.  What you should do to show interest but not get embarrassed? Tell him jokes. Be busy. Busy women are sexy. Talk about ordinary things. Don't make drama because you sound desperate. Smile and look pretty. Untidy women are not attractive. A sad face is not desirable. Surround yourself with friends. If you hate every

How to find right business connections?

When you walk on the hard path of betrayal and disloyalty, it will frustrate you. Everyone will be the same for you, the face you can't trust. Someone who will screw you. Another one who will use you and take advantage.  This is not the right way if you want success.  The first step to recover from traitors is to forget the past. Don't look back, you are not going that way. It means: If someone rejected you in the past, let him stay there. Don't beg for a return and don't accept if he changes his mind.  If someone called you after the century passed, don't accept this call. Ignore and go forward. The second step is to stop comparing people. We are different, and if someone reminds you of the bad person in the past, this is not a pattern. It might look like this, but you will not repeat the same mistake twice, or you will fix it faster than before. The third step is to accept changes. Don't afraid of changes, even it looks wors

Why some men think about women as their property?

When a man is handsome, it is his advantage. Many doors will open to him, and many women will ask for his attention. What makes a difference is how that man uses his attraction, in a bad or a good way? Some guys act like morons. They will use their sexy appearance to treat women like cheap trash. They will try to use them just for sex and then throw them. They will use rich women to get money, young women to use their naivete, and depressed women to make them happy. The Internet is a heaven for men with evil attention. Here how the story goes: "I am handsome, I can get every woman. I will follow her, like her photos, and ask for Whatssup. Then I will ask her for naked photos. After that, I will call her to see her naked. Then, if it is possible, I will ask for a real meeting, to fuck her." If a man thinks that things will go smooth, he is in misguide. A smart woman will ignore him, and if he is persistent, he will say him to back off and block him. S