Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

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Friendship is a kind of relationship. Two people are hanging out, sharing secrets, and keep each other’s back. Their characters are various and they were raised in different surroundings. Yet, they complete each other and enjoy spending time together. Friendship breaks like a relationship. People split, they separate, and the result is, they don’t talk anymore. Sometimes, they don’t greet each other in the street. They start gossip with each other and it is possible that the former friendship turns into an enemy zone.  Now, why this happened? Not that we hate our friends overnight. It is not we pretended liking and affection.  This is something else. Where do you mistake? I will help you with this. Did you agree with your friend every time? Did you clap your hands on everything he did? Did you support his every action, even you disagreed with this? Did you let him choose your other friends and your priorities? See, here you made a mistake. Even you are a loyal friend, never be somebody

The reason why someone should make you feel inferior always exists. The roots could be deep in his personality, in his character, or in competition. If a woman wants to steal your man, she will gossip about you. "She is ugly, stupid, poor, promiscuous." If someone wants to steal your job, he will try to make you humiliated. "He is lazy, unable to do this job, and his skills are zero." If someone denies your talent, he will say that you need help from an expert or minorize your values. Also, the person will ask for money to develop your talent.  Success is not for weak people. As Dostojevski said: "Don't stand to hit every dog in your path with a rock ." No, you have no time for this .  Envy and jealousy will make your opponent weak. He will slow down his progress, while you will go faster.  Success is focused on progress. We are going toward the future, not toward the past. Don't look back, you are not going that way. If I would t

There is a quote: You can't bake a cake from shit. That is how is with a man's nature: you can't change a bad personality. If you are hanging out with a man who is primitive, uneducated, and promiscuous, you can't expect to turn him into a noble gentleman.  Women who claim to change a man's personality, lie. They live in illusion because if the change happened, it is not because they did it. Reasons why men change their attitude are: They passed through a bad breakup or divorce. They got old. They feel lonely. They are mature and tired of games and flirting. They fall in love with younger women. When his time comes, a man will do basic things to change his approach to relationships. He could pretend to catch young women, rich women, or get rid of bad habits. Sometimes, this is cruelty: he was using women for sex in the past, now he is acting like a gentle daddy to his child. Women will be mean and said "I was the right

Some women believe they should please a man constantly if they want to keep him. G: Bernard Shaw once said: "I would rather choose a nasty woman than a boring one. You wish to kill a nasty one but you don't want to leave her." A woman who can show teeth, to be symbolic, is always an interesting one. Relationships are the battlefield and men are hunters so different attitudes raise sparks. When a man sees a sassy woman, he will be attracted to her. If a woman acts like a servant and a cook, she is not a challenge if she cleans after him. If she gives all the benefits to her partner, he will soon take her for granted.  Roger is a playboy. He jumps from one woman to another one, and never stays too long. After he gets what he wishes he is looking for a new opportunity. The only permanent woman in his life is his friend Alice. She advises him and gives him comfort, but also they are fighting from time to time. Sometimes they don't speak at all. R

If you strive for a better life, you see. Through open eyes, you wish better for yourself. Even circumstances might slow you down, and people stop your progress. Still, your ambitions are alive. Anyone who has lived in a harder way can understand the dream. If you did not have money, you looked at people who spent money on things; they don't need it. Maybe you spared money for basic needs until someone enjoyed in wealthy life. Your urge pushed you to accept jobs you did not dream about. Sometimes you shared your private space with people you did not like. If you were in the dorm, you had a roommate. If you shared an office, you had office mates who were not pleasant always.  A lack of money means a lack of freedom. Also, it means a lack of privacy because if you wish to swim alone; you need a big swimming pool and you can't effort it if you are poor. How your vision will develop, depends on a few things. Do you have an instinct for survival? Do you giv

When your friend is a man, you must set up your boundaries. Especially if your friend is your ex-lover or boyfriend.  Sometimes a man will not accept the word NO as an answer to his desires, but the word MAYBE  will get him confused. For example, you want friendship; he wants a relationship. You want respect; he wants sex. You maybe want it later, but he is not ready to wait, and he doesn't have patience.  If you once accepted him as a lover, you may change your mind. Carmen and Oliver had a short adventure. The next time they met, she was not in the mood to make love with him. Everything was fun on the first date, but he was cheap now in her eyes. She felt she deserves more. She wanted conversation, admiration, and respect, and Oliver offered just his unzipped pants. His behavior was unacceptable. Even worse, he looked lame in her eyes, like he lost dignity. He was like an animal, and she was not in a mood to deal with animals. It was too raw and primitive for her ta