Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

People love to look down on someone, just to feel powerful. Judgments are something you can't avoid in gossip's circle, but if the topic is your friend things become uglier. Even in virtual circles, people love to warn each other about their friends. Sometimes I get messages about this "dangerous guy", "filthy woman", "maniac" or "pervert." Especially if the sender is an unknown person, I ignore it. What I think about judgment? I am not a jury. I am not perfect, either. If I chose someone as a friend, I will not judge him. I accept a friend with all the imperfections. We are humans, not robots.  Judging someone means that you are an insecure person . Asking failures with a magnifier means that you are not able to accept someone's personality. People change in a way that life and circumstances changed them.  Why is judgment ridiculous? Everybody has a past . If you stole a chocolate egg whe...

Do you know how to make a difference between a guy who likes you and a guy who loves you? Many women make mistakes by listening to compliments from guys who only want to drag them to bed. A woman's vanity will blossom when a guy says: "You are so different from other women." Indeed, this is his tricky way to get what he wants because he likes you and you are a suitable temporary match, but he doesn't want to be obligated to you. To simplify this, I will say that a man might want many women to have sex, but just one to love her and care about her. Did you already hear this story? "You look very beautiful tonight. I am burning for you. You are sexy." Later on, it could be another story. "I thought this is only the adventure. I am not ready for something serious at this moment." If you get only silence and there is no response, this is a response for you. You were not important to him otherwise he would call you...

Jealousy is a sting in your heart and soul. You want something that others have.  You wish something that belongs to you accord your beliefs, but someone stole it from you.  You wish to move someone from your spot because his place is not there; he is level under you. A positive person streams to reach the aim. When your head is full of plans and when your schedule is busy, you have no time to check other's lives. You will check what is important to you and connect with you. Recently a woman made a comment under my book even she did not read it. Her eyes stuck in my cover and title and she said that sounds like a horrible book. Personally, I would feel embarrassed to comment on something I did not read. It just showed the level of her intelligence and bad manners. And do you know when she commented? On Saturday, when people get rest from the week and have a relaxing time.  Envious and jealous people often use a weekend to throw their da...

Look at how much time you spent on unimportant conflicts and quarrels. Whilst ego is building itself, your time will never come back. Look how many important moments vanished whilst you hated someone from depth in your soul. We can't help ourselves. Sometimes we spend hours analyzing could anything be different if we reacted normally in past conflicts. Could we be calmer? I was different before. I jumped on every bad word from some pricks because I wanted to fight back. It doesn't matter if this was an internet troll or a real person, I always wanted to give my feedback. Later, I learned that some bullets are not worthy to use. Some fights are not worthy of starting. You can win a battle even if you never reply. If you ignore your hate: He will feel unimportant. He will feel like he is doing a monologue. He will shut up because there was no response. He will stay hungry because haters are feeding themselves with your nerves. ...