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5 kinds of obstacles to your success

If you ask yourself, why your progress is too slow and why you are still standing in the place, make the analysis inside of you. It is not a curse and a lack of powerful acquaintances. It is not a high force. These factors stand in your way: Fear. You are afraid of what you might be. You are not aware of this, but imagine that you are in public now? Are you trembling? Are you afraid to lose privacy? Shyness.  You are afraid to ask someone to help you. You are insecure about your qualities. You think others are better than you. Ego.  You think you know all the best, but collaboration is necessary. You don't want to admit mistakes. Fake friends.  Cut off all connections with doubters. Empty promises.  Don't believe those who say to help you and then hesitate. The promise is a deadline factor. Now or never. Clean your path even it means sacrificing and isolating yourself. Nobody succeeds in the crowd and in a noisy atmosphere. You...

Why women should not chase men for relationship?

Never let someone build your ego in a way that you are chasing him. I know a woman in love will do many crazy things but don't let a man knows that you are interested in him. The less he knows, your chances to be with him are bigger. The more he knows, the easier you fall on his charm, your chances are lower. Once he gets you, he will ask for a new challenge. It doesn't mean that you should not show any interest in him. Your ways should be sophisticated, you can approach him without the pressure that he owes you something. In this way, your message is clear, so he is not obligated to you, but he has a choice.  What you should do to show interest but not get embarrassed? Tell him jokes. Be busy. Busy women are sexy. Talk about ordinary things. Don't make drama because you sound desperate. Smile and look pretty. Untidy women are not attractive. A sad face is not desirable. Surround yourself with friends. If you hate every...

How to find right business connections?

When you walk on the hard path of betrayal and disloyalty, it will frustrate you. Everyone will be the same for you, the face you can't trust. Someone who will screw you. Another one who will use you and take advantage.  This is not the right way if you want success.  The first step to recover from traitors is to forget the past. Don't look back, you are not going that way. It means: If someone rejected you in the past, let him stay there. Don't beg for a return and don't accept if he changes his mind.  If someone called you after the century passed, don't accept this call. Ignore and go forward. The second step is to stop comparing people. We are different, and if someone reminds you of the bad person in the past, this is not a pattern. It might look like this, but you will not repeat the same mistake twice, or you will fix it faster than before. The third step is to accept changes. Don't afraid of changes, even it looks wors...

Why some men think about women as their property?

When a man is handsome, it is his advantage. Many doors will open to him, and many women will ask for his attention. What makes a difference is how that man uses his attraction, in a bad or a good way? Some guys act like morons. They will use their sexy appearance to treat women like cheap trash. They will try to use them just for sex and then throw them. They will use rich women to get money, young women to use their naivete, and depressed women to make them happy. The Internet is a heaven for men with evil attention. Here how the story goes: "I am handsome, I can get every woman. I will follow her, like her photos, and ask for Whatssup. Then I will ask her for naked photos. After that, I will call her to see her naked. Then, if it is possible, I will ask for a real meeting, to fuck her." If a man thinks that things will go smooth, he is in misguide. A smart woman will ignore him, and if he is persistent, he will say him to back off and block him. S...

Relationships: The affair is based on sparks

She made him feel purer. He felt urged to change his lifestyle. Behind him were a bunch of women, but many of them were dirty. A long time ago he was in this desperate club. There were people who were drowning, and nobody gave them a straw. Any woman was welcomed to his arms. It doesn't matter if she was old, poor, ugly, stupid, or mean, she was a woman gender and all this mattered.  That relationships were a field of damage for him. His friends, family, watched over him like he has a plague. Nobody liked to socialize with him at his workplace because his reputation was not good.  One day she came. She was distanced, but without any judgment. She knew how is to feel isolated, so she accepted him as a man. He recovered to her his wonderful soul. His loyalty, kindness, well-mannered behavior was not just a mask. It was a skin he recovered only for her because she stood on his side. She defended him in front of the judgmental crowd.  These women were hun...

Are you a judgmental friend?

People love to look down on someone, just to feel powerful. Judgments are something you can't avoid in gossip's circle, but if the topic is your friend things become uglier. Even in virtual circles, people love to warn each other about their friends. Sometimes I get messages about this "dangerous guy", "filthy woman", "maniac" or "pervert." Especially if the sender is an unknown person, I ignore it. What I think about judgment? I am not a jury. I am not perfect, either. If I chose someone as a friend, I will not judge him. I accept a friend with all the imperfections. We are humans, not robots.  Judging someone means that you are an insecure person . Asking failures with a magnifier means that you are not able to accept someone's personality. People change in a way that life and circumstances changed them.  Why is judgment ridiculous? Everybody has a past . If you stole a chocolate egg whe...

What if he wants you only to use you?

Do you know how to make a difference between a guy who likes you and a guy who loves you? Many women make mistakes by listening to compliments from guys who only want to drag them to bed. A woman's vanity will blossom when a guy says: "You are so different from other women." Indeed, this is his tricky way to get what he wants because he likes you and you are a suitable temporary match, but he doesn't want to be obligated to you. To simplify this, I will say that a man might want many women to have sex, but just one to love her and care about her. Did you already hear this story? "You look very beautiful tonight. I am burning for you. You are sexy." Later on, it could be another story. "I thought this is only the adventure. I am not ready for something serious at this moment." If you get only silence and there is no response, this is a response for you. You were not important to him otherwise he would call you...