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Do you attract wrong people?

You wish to attract a certain person. Your vision is about someone who will support you, offer a shoulder for crying, and be someone you can lean on. Instead of this, you got a passive person who will not move a little finger for you. Or you got an egoist who just thinks of himself and his needs. It is wrong to blame a person who is in your life now. You could blame your choice, or research your character. What is inside of you that attracts someone like this?  What kind of impression do you leave? If you are a fragile woman, kind and obedient, you will attract a tough guy who will stand by your side and protect you. If you are a strong, independent woman, you will attract a soft man, phlegmatic or unstable who will give you the freedom to do what you wish, but you can't count on him to stand by you because you can do it better by yourself. The trouble is, what if you are independent and strong, and you wish for an equal partner? Do you need to prete...

Why some women play a seductive game, but don't want a relationship

Do you wonder why some women are always elegant, approachable, and kind, so it makes them popular? At first sight, men will think they are available to flirt. They expose their photos on social networks, you can see them everywhere. She has many followers on Instagram; she is popular on Facebook. She is popular in her workplace. She is a popular neighbor. Guys with less experience will try to involve with them. It looks like an easy target to get in the bed, they will think. Suddenly, there is a wall. The same woman who smiled at you and talked sweet showed you the way out. "No, I am not interested in you," she says. You try again. "What part of this sentence you don't understand. Get out," she says, rough. Now, the guy is in doubt. She added him to her page. She liked his photo. She accepted his coffee. Now, she rejects him like he is a toy. "Damn bitch. " the angry one will say. We in Croatia have a proverb: ...

What does friendship with an ex-boyfriend really mean?

Everyone has ex - relationships. We build our experiences through failed relationships; we jump in the romances which will not end well. Maybe we know from the beginning there is no future, but it tempts us. Then we make an attempt and it fails. Every past relationship is not a bitter experience. After we froze our feelings and time pass, we could change our romance to friendship. Yes, that person is still in our life, just with a different role. We are not kissing and cuddling anymore, we just want to be there as support.  There is no problem if we have an agreement. You know where is the line. I will talk to you and you have my loyalty, but it doesn't mean that I will jump in your bed when you get horny. If I was in your bed once, it doesn't mean I must do this forever.  The problem appears when your ex uses your friendship like an intro in a sex adventure. So, I am listening to you, and now I will hug you and you will be mine again. You will be in...