Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

The reason why someone should make you feel inferior always exists. The roots could be deep in his personality, in his character, or in competition. If a woman wants to steal your man, she will gossip about you. "She is ugly, stupid, poor, promiscuous." If someone wants to steal your job, he will try to make you humiliated. "He is lazy, unable to do this job, and his skills are zero." If someone denies your talent, he will say that you need help from an expert or minorize your values. Also, the person will ask for money to develop your talent.  Success is not for weak people. As Dostojevski said: "Don't stand to hit every dog in your path with a rock ." No, you have no time for this .  Envy and jealousy will make your opponent weak. He will slow down his progress, while you will go faster.  Success is focused on progress. We are going toward the future, not toward the past. Don't look back, you are not going that way. If I would t...

There is a quote: You can't bake a cake from shit. That is how is with a man's nature: you can't change a bad personality. If you are hanging out with a man who is primitive, uneducated, and promiscuous, you can't expect to turn him into a noble gentleman.  Women who claim to change a man's personality, lie. They live in illusion because if the change happened, it is not because they did it. Reasons why men change their attitude are: They passed through a bad breakup or divorce. They got old. They feel lonely. They are mature and tired of games and flirting. They fall in love with younger women. When his time comes, a man will do basic things to change his approach to relationships. He could pretend to catch young women, rich women, or get rid of bad habits. Sometimes, this is cruelty: he was using women for sex in the past, now he is acting like a gentle daddy to his child. Women will be mean and said "I was the right ...

Some women believe they should please a man constantly if they want to keep him. G: Bernard Shaw once said: "I would rather choose a nasty woman than a boring one. You wish to kill a nasty one but you don't want to leave her." A woman who can show teeth, to be symbolic, is always an interesting one. Relationships are the battlefield and men are hunters so different attitudes raise sparks. When a man sees a sassy woman, he will be attracted to her. If a woman acts like a servant and a cook, she is not a challenge if she cleans after him. If she gives all the benefits to her partner, he will soon take her for granted.  Roger is a playboy. He jumps from one woman to another one, and never stays too long. After he gets what he wishes he is looking for a new opportunity. The only permanent woman in his life is his friend Alice. She advises him and gives him comfort, but also they are fighting from time to time. Sometimes they don't speak at all. R...

If you strive for a better life, you see. Through open eyes, you wish better for yourself. Even circumstances might slow you down, and people stop your progress. Still, your ambitions are alive. Anyone who has lived in a harder way can understand the dream. If you did not have money, you looked at people who spent money on things; they don't need it. Maybe you spared money for basic needs until someone enjoyed in wealthy life. Your urge pushed you to accept jobs you did not dream about. Sometimes you shared your private space with people you did not like. If you were in the dorm, you had a roommate. If you shared an office, you had office mates who were not pleasant always.  A lack of money means a lack of freedom. Also, it means a lack of privacy because if you wish to swim alone; you need a big swimming pool and you can't effort it if you are poor. How your vision will develop, depends on a few things. Do you have an instinct for survival? Do you giv...

When your friend is a man, you must set up your boundaries. Especially if your friend is your ex-lover or boyfriend.  Sometimes a man will not accept the word NO as an answer to his desires, but the word MAYBE  will get him confused. For example, you want friendship; he wants a relationship. You want respect; he wants sex. You maybe want it later, but he is not ready to wait, and he doesn't have patience.  If you once accepted him as a lover, you may change your mind. Carmen and Oliver had a short adventure. The next time they met, she was not in the mood to make love with him. Everything was fun on the first date, but he was cheap now in her eyes. She felt she deserves more. She wanted conversation, admiration, and respect, and Oliver offered just his unzipped pants. His behavior was unacceptable. Even worse, he looked lame in her eyes, like he lost dignity. He was like an animal, and she was not in a mood to deal with animals. It was too raw and primitive ...

Do you feel like good things in life avoid you? Everything great happens to someone else. She got birth. She found a great man. He got a promotion at work. He won the lottery.  Also, you might feel you don't fit in the community. It connects everyone here with a common interest, but you are the intruder. People avoid you like a plague because you are different. Don't worry, famous people are usually different. Their ideas are different, and their ways are unusual. How could the average community with some formal rules understand that we are not all the same and that is wrong to push us all into the same box? It is important to see average thinking in the mind of an average employer who is working 8 or more hours daily and who did not hear for the better.  " I must go with my colleague to the business restaurant for lunch. If I sit alone, everyone will think I am a weirdo. I must talk with my colleagues about my private life because I must fit into the...

Looking for a new job? Searching for a partner? Fighting with workmates? These are all situation that needs support. People are like that, they expect someone to hold their side, but it doesn't happen like they imagine. You can't depend on others' support because even if you get it, it will be temporary. People are used to changing sides, and once you did something wrong, your support will vanish. If you are an ordinary person who is not well-positioned in the business world or if you are not rich, you can't count on many people.  Remember the facts: People usually avoid being involved in others' conflicts.  Someone will support you if you give something to him. Give money, return the favor. You will get support if you have a common enemy.  Your support must have more power than your enemy, otherwise, it is useless.  I learned a long time ago, whatever I do, I must learn at myself at first. Everything else is a bonus or a su...