Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

People love to look down on someone, just to feel powerful. Judgments are something you can't avoid in gossip's circle, but if the topic is your friend things become uglier. Even in virtual circles, people love to warn each other about their friends. Sometimes I get messages about this "dangerous guy", "filthy woman", "maniac" or "pervert." Especially if the sender is an unknown person, I ignore it. What I think about judgment? I am not a jury. I am not perfect, either. If I chose someone as a friend, I will not judge him. I accept a friend with all the imperfections. We are humans, not robots.  Judging someone means that you are an insecure person . Asking failures with a magnifier means that you are not able to accept someone's personality. People change in a way that life and circumstances changed them.  Why is judgment ridiculous? Everybody has a past . If you stole a chocolate egg whe...

Do you know how to make a difference between a guy who likes you and a guy who loves you? Many women make mistakes by listening to compliments from guys who only want to drag them to bed. A woman's vanity will blossom when a guy says: "You are so different from other women." Indeed, this is his tricky way to get what he wants because he likes you and you are a suitable temporary match, but he doesn't want to be obligated to you. To simplify this, I will say that a man might want many women to have sex, but just one to love her and care about her. Did you already hear this story? "You look very beautiful tonight. I am burning for you. You are sexy." Later on, it could be another story. "I thought this is only the adventure. I am not ready for something serious at this moment." If you get only silence and there is no response, this is a response for you. You were not important to him otherwise he would call you...

Jealousy is a sting in your heart and soul. You want something that others have.  You wish something that belongs to you accord your beliefs, but someone stole it from you.  You wish to move someone from your spot because his place is not there; he is level under you. A positive person streams to reach the aim. When your head is full of plans and when your schedule is busy, you have no time to check other's lives. You will check what is important to you and connect with you. Recently a woman made a comment under my book even she did not read it. Her eyes stuck in my cover and title and she said that sounds like a horrible book. Personally, I would feel embarrassed to comment on something I did not read. It just showed the level of her intelligence and bad manners. And do you know when she commented? On Saturday, when people get rest from the week and have a relaxing time.  Envious and jealous people often use a weekend to throw their da...

Look at how much time you spent on unimportant conflicts and quarrels. Whilst ego is building itself, your time will never come back. Look how many important moments vanished whilst you hated someone from depth in your soul. We can't help ourselves. Sometimes we spend hours analyzing could anything be different if we reacted normally in past conflicts. Could we be calmer? I was different before. I jumped on every bad word from some pricks because I wanted to fight back. It doesn't matter if this was an internet troll or a real person, I always wanted to give my feedback. Later, I learned that some bullets are not worthy to use. Some fights are not worthy of starting. You can win a battle even if you never reply. If you ignore your hate: He will feel unimportant. He will feel like he is doing a monologue. He will shut up because there was no response. He will stay hungry because haters are feeding themselves with your nerves. ...

Do you see between lines when it comes to romance? Do you mix real love with a fake sugarcoated story?  Do you want to see what you wish to see? The romance could be only in your fantasies. You might make an image of an ideal person and gain some expectations, but when you woke up nothing of it existed. The one who loves you want the whole image of you. He knows how you look without makeup. He understands when you are struggling with your weight. He understands why you are crying when things are not well. He knows why you are angry. He listens and observes.  He sits with you in the dark. The one who only likes you: He wants to see your best edition. He is not interested in why you have black thoughts. He doesn't want to listen to your problems. He has no time for your depression. He wants you physically, but he doesn't see under your surface. Sometimes, affection is a substitute for the words of love, but nice words have ...

Did you ever wonder why you can't agree with some people? It doesn't have to be your fault or their problem; it is just a wrong connection. If you get attracted by a man who is so different from you and you are constantly fighting, it is just a wrong turn. People with various characters will attract each other at first sight.  Sex is great. You love different things, but you explore each other. You hate him and love him at the same time. You feel like on the battlefield, conflicts are part of your routine. Rebecca fell in love with Adam quick. They were friends, but sparks between them won the game; they slept together. Differences between them became obvious after a few months. He believed in God; she was an atheist. She was ambitious and wanted a place in public media as a journalist; he wanted a family life. She was hot-tempered and Adam considered her as a crazy one. All that he loved about her when they made love became an obstacle i...

We are struggling with various problems. Someone can't be slim. Diets are not working out. Someone can't find a partner. Someone hates their job. We are sometimes in a situation that needs a way out, but the gate is not here. The worst thing you can do is to mark yourself as a loser. "I need to die." "I am not worthy, I can't do it." If you make statuses about this is social media, you will not get useful advice. You will get pity, mockery, or preaching. Remember, people don't know you personally, and they will run away from you because you don't like yourself, so how you could gain their affection? Too much positive attitude is also irritating, so these words make me nervous: The sun will shine for you too. Your time will come. Smile, life is short. Instead of this, I prefer to say: I am struggling, but I am in the race. It is not perfect, but I can well. I am not in a good mood, but things will ...