Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

Once upon a time, there was a handsome knight who fought for the honor of his lady. If someone insulted the lady of his heart, he started a battle, intending to win or lose his life. As time is passing by, we forgot the values of honor. Nowadays we have different choices, and we will not ask our men to die for us. But together with past times, honor became something old-fashioned. Some men will think: "My woman knows how to defend herself, she is swearing and drinking more than me, so what should I do, to stay without teeth because of her? No way." What happened with a feeling of dignity and honor? And why guys lose respect toward women in some situations? Here are examples. The woman opens the profile on the social network. If she is not traditional, big chances are to lose respect, to be invited on camera for striptease show or to be insulted. But different attitude doesn't mean always that she wants sex or that she is promiscuous. T...

E ven bad original is better than an excellent copy. If we are just blank print of someone else, we lose our identity. Look at for example Marilyn Monroe. She had and she has a million copies. Girls now days try to copy her, her style, her makeup, her clothes. Indeed when I look at some folk singers to copy Marilyn style, it looks so cheap and superficial. Marilyn would turn around in her grave to see such trash. When we are teenagers, we search and explore our style, our ideas, our views. And some people are good role models, but we are not them. It is possible to write crime stories, but Agatha Christie is one and nobody can't replace Lady of death. It is better to develop own style than to copy another style in a bad way. Imagine reconstruction of Leonardo Da Vinci's picture, that you put a cheap jewel around Mona Lisa's neck. That would be shameful. The same thing is with some movie remakes or evergreen songs. Leave it untouchable. The worst kin...

Everyone likes praises. If it comes from the person you like, that is a gift without an envelope. What if you are on an unwanted target?  See how you react to someone who is not dear to you. Are you flattered when someone gives you a compliment?  Your cheeks blush on every kind of compliment and from anyone? I don't think so. You probably have a vision of your love or you are already in love, and you care what will your awesome person say. W hat happens when you get a stalker, an unwanted fan who doesn't want to give up from you? That is really annoying.  You want to get rid of that nerd with glasses or you want that fat girl get lost from your eyes, but you are subject to their desires. They won't give up just like that. You can get a bunch of messages, request for your Facebook and another social network, your fan is here to follow you and that unwanted face jump out from every corner. Wow, almost you can feel like a celebrity, just you need a jumbo...

When you expect something, you are on needles. This should be this day, this week, this year, and still is not there. You send to apply for a job and nobody responds to you? You called this sweet girl and she did not answer at your call? The friend forgot about you even you invited him to party? The expectation is a whore. If you expect something great, it might disappoint you when you get an average result. For sure you might remember your facial expression when someone bought a gift for your birthday. You wanted expensive perfume, and a friend bought you spray. Now she expects gratitude, and you will say: - Thanks, it is nice. Indeed, all you wish is to strangle her because you expected more from your best friend. Don't be naive in your judgment. If you think that giving much means getting much, this math formula doesn't work in that way. The classic story is hidden in love relations.  All the girls were running for the same guy in class. Lew was a macho du...

The daily routine is a silent killer. You are somewhere in the city, meeting with a thousand undesirable people, their faces insult you with their existence. Do you wish to see a beggar who asks you money, drunk kid who is crawling with a bottle of wine in his hand or a poor old granny with vegetables in bags, asking desperately who will help her to carry her burden? No, for sure you will wish a young girl who will bring you a cocktail with cheery or man with muscles who will do unforgettable massage. Or you wish to swim in the swimming pool where only you have access. The biggest freedom is indeed financial freedom. When you don't need a tram to get on time because your driver will take you. When you don't need to share your office with the old boring hag and wake up in 6 in the morning, to catch the bus where the driver will listen to terrible folk music.  When your neighbors will not ring on your doors at the moment you just came from work. this world which...

The key to happiness is in rejection. Protect your area and your circles. If we will let anybody to enter our life, then we will have to recycle bin. Human nature is not as delicious as sugar cake. People are of all kind, stalkers, pests, desperate losers, maniacs, fools. If we will be available for all, what it leaves for us? A good example is a person who will always let anyone poke nose, who will do a job for others without complaining. One day such a person can sit on the toilet and pee with a cell phone in her hands, just to please all wishes. Probably you have a boring neighbor who drinks coffee for hours and always has a bunch of gossips for you. Or your phone rings all the time because your mad boss wants that you work overtime. Maybe your best friend again broke up with a boyfriend and you must listen to her tragedy, version number 100. Some situations when is necessary to say no: A phone call in the early morning. It is not an emergency...

One simple thing can make you smile and your day will be better. As much as your mood is bad or sad, something will capture your attention and you will forget your troubles, even for a moment. I went to the shopping mall to buy some food for dinner. I met a man with a bloody face; he asked for more beer. I suppose he fell, or he got hard kicks from someone, but the impression was like in horror movies. Freddie Kruger is in the shopping, walking around without purpose.  People were in fear. What will that creature do to break something or find some victim? Is it necessary to call the police? The guy took empty bottles for money and went out, like nothing happened, with his bloody face. It seems he had no mirror on his way home. This event showed something else.  Nobody cares, only in case of scandal people will ask what happened.  I mean, wf, that is an only drunk dude, who asked one more bottle of beer. His face was bloody, so what? Probably he fel...