Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

" I am strong. I am independent. I know how to deal with things alone. " How many times have you heard of this sentence? Some people are ashamed of their emotions, they refuse to admit that they need support when life becomes hard. They are craving a hug, but they will not ask for help. They are afraid of reactions, it is not socially acceptable to show your emotions. "Hey, this is life. Squeeze your teeth and go on with your obligations. Nobody cares anyway. " The perception of weakness is wrongly understood . It is very cool and popular to say that you are a strong woman who refuses men, but if you say that you need a hug people will mock you because this is a kind of weakness. I f you look behind the surface, you understand that being weak in some circumstances could be an advantage. If you admit your real feelings, you will reveal your emotional side. This is not bad, emotional people are passionate, creative, and empathetic.  If yo...

Recently I saw on Facebook a photo of a handsome male model. Someone posted this like the intro in a debate club. The question was: “Would you choose a handsome man who will cheat you or a less attractive man who will be faithful?” It was a shallow argument because it reveals prejudice. So, if a man is a handsome one, he will cheat? If he is not handsome, he will be faithful? At first, is necessary to make a definition of what is indeed handsome. Here are some standards, but not every woman is attracted to a male model. I will say that he looks gorgeous, but it doesn’t make him attractive to me, because it takes more than a good look to attract me. The truth is, if your beloved man is attractive, he will gain more attention. Girls will approach him, they will call him and he will have a wider choice. Here is the opportunity, he can pick whether to cheat or not. If he is truly interested in one woman, he will not cheat. If he is not collecting numbers he will stand in ...

At the start, Instagram was a mobile application for rich and famous people. Many celebrities use this platform to brag about their brand clothes, expensive cars, and their circle. If your husband is famous you might post your half-naked photos to feed your vanity. For example, miss Pitana, a wife of a football referee uses her Instagram to show her naked body to her fans. In the past, it would be a form of prostitution but nowadays it is marketing. What is interesting on Instagram is a big competition and a collective hunger for success. Haters and fans and attention whoring is the main description. In the age of capitalism, everyone sees the opportunity to get rich. That is proof that employment sucks. Who wishes to spend 8 hours in the office when your boobs can open the door to a better world? Like many people I use Instagram to post photos from journeys and parties, to promote my blog, and meet interesting people. I was always a fan of foreign people. Why a...

Blogging is not a blind alley. This is not one-sided communication, either. The beauty of blogging is the trading opinions and when I see comments on my blog which is connected with a topic, I am happy. Sometimes other bloggers inspire me to open topics. They remind me of a different point of view, or of something I have forgotten. What I will never do is invite people to comment on my posts. I am not a beggar or an attention whore. I respect other choices. If you find my topic interesting, be my guess. If I can make you smile, I won. If you think I am boring, you can avoid me. I comment on blogs I consider interesting. Some people write with many emotions, which is my problem because I don’t know how to express emotions in the right way. Sometimes I sound angry, even I am sad in fact. Sometimes I sound vindictive, and I only want fair play.  Sometimes I don’t know what I really want. I feel lost in my labyrinth. The point of real interaction is not “like for like”, ...

Together with technological progress, people got back to the Stone age when they communicated in a primitive way. Clapping hands, smiling, and drawing images. Do disclaimers remain you of this? How about short words such as btw, lol, omg, LMFAO, etc? We are overwhelmed with info, people have a lot to say and little to listen to. They will read a title and makers alike. They will bother you if you look good and ignore you if you wish to discuss it. My communication with a guy yesterday: 😍 😘😎 🤗 I did not want to bother with explanations so I learned about Tarzan and Jane's interaction. If you want to dig deeper into the surface you must be patient. The last time I saw focused people was during the World cup final. Even then some made shots of goals with cell phones. We go back to ancient times with hieroglyphs. Now we must learn meanings. What do people like to read? Good humor. Political news. Celebrity gossips. ...

You never know who is reading your blog. Maybe you think you are unnoticed because millions of bloggers are in a blogosphere trying to make a success. Maybe you think you will hide between many posts which jump every day on the internet. I thought too. Then I found out that someone I know from reality reads my blog. He said to someone else: "I follow her every day. This is so stupid to read." And another person said: " I think that is very interesting. She has an attitude. She doesn't use a sugar coating."   Well, if something I don't like, I don't read or listen or follow.  For example, I don't listen to Shakira and I don't follow her on social networks. I will not say she is stupid. Her music is not my type of music, so I ignore it. So they might divide your fan zone. If someone follows you and criticizes you, he is still a fan. A bad advertisement is still a promotion. People will use your page to try an act of reveng...

Many people are interested to make a blog that will be popular and famous. Once, a girl said to me: "I wish to open a blog site, I have a sense of writing, how does it work? It looks easy." I am a blogger for about 5 years and English is not my native language so you can imagine how hard work was for me. I was struggling not only with grammar mistakes, but also dealt with mockery, critics, and spammers. Well, I did not give up. I self-published 5 books, and I met many interesting people. I am a hard nut and I don't give up easily, so I accepted the blogging challenge. Meanwhile, I noticed mistakes that every beginner does. A big ego, a hard desire for popularity, and a strong wish to change lives are obstacles in this way. 7 myths about blogging: Other bloggers are my rivals, and I don't want to cooperate with anyone. Wrong step number one. You will not gain success without the audience, and your audience is other bloggers. Don't underes...