Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

Do you know the feeling when you wish to be with someone, but it is not possible? The reasons might be various. He is at a big distance. He is not single. He doesn't love you back. The conclusion is the same. He can't be your partner. Despite all the obstacles, you still want him. I obsess you with the thought to be with him, even for a short. If you can get only a moment, it would make you happy. Emotional fixation is a state when you focus on a certain person, but you know that is only an illusion that will not turn into reality. Making a dream with open eyes is your escape from the daily routine.  Why you are doing this? You feel alone even you are in a relationship. Your life did not justify your expectations. You have a strong imagination. You can be alone with yourself. The object of emotional fixation is a person you like. In your imagination, he is a hero with a magic stick who will make all things perfect.  Emotional ...

The most successful person is the one who put a curtain over her plans. Nobody knew what is going on, and suddenly stroke of luck hit her.  For sure you heard about the spell of jealousy.  If you say to someone that you like a guy, bad energy can ruin your possible relationship.  If you talk about a business opportunity, envy can ruin this at the start. I know, it is hard to be quiet when you get a chance to make your life better. You want to share happiness with someone, you want to talk about what is going on. Imagine that you have a chance to be with the love of your life, and suddenly it blew. Your confident person will ask what happened to your prince and you will have one problem more. The things others don't know can't hurt you. Maybe you were dumped by someone and nobody knows. Maybe you failed at your work task and nobody knows. Your failures should stay buried and let success make a noise by itself. Making plans in silence have an ad...

Ignorance is the sister of disrespect. It closely relates to them. If a person ignores you, it means you are not worthy of their time. It happens to everyone.  Don't believe it when someone says "I am busy", as an excuse. Yes, we are all busy, and we live with a busy schedule, but the day is long 24 hours and during this time we made priorities. So, guess are you on the priority list if someone ignores you a day, week, or month? The answer is no. When you wish to hear news from someone or stay in contact, you will make an attempt. It means you will use any reason to stay in contact.  When you don't wish to stay in contact, you will do an excuse. Everything will be more important to you. Even your cat's crap in the basket will be on the priority list before a person you wish to ignore. Girls will often ask what to do when a guy who is their crush ignores them? Girls, you need to know, that some guys will never break up with you. Some of ...

Some people love to live in illusion. Nobody comes to your birthday party? Don't pity yourself, if you are alone, you are in good company. On the other hand, imagine that 10 people come to your birthday, and none of them isn't loyal. Dubravka organized a birthday in a coffee bar.  She gathered ten girls to celebrate her 18th birthday. They came with gifts and she paid for them for drinks. Those were her guests. Until she was unpacking gifts, they talked to each other and neglected Dubravka. One of the girls, Simona, was the center of attention because her ex-boyfriend Robert entered the bar.  "Oh, look who is here. Your ex, Simona." girls murmured. "What are you doing here?" Robert approached the table, without greeting Dubravka. Simona blushed and covered her face with palms. The unpleasant silence filled the air. Robert took a deep sigh and said: "So, have fun. " The rest of the evening girls were talking about Rob...

You wish to attract a certain person. Your vision is about someone who will support you, offer a shoulder for crying, and be someone you can lean on. Instead of this, you got a passive person who will not move a little finger for you. Or you got an egoist who just thinks of himself and his needs. It is wrong to blame a person who is in your life now. You could blame your choice, or research your character. What is inside of you that attracts someone like this?  What kind of impression do you leave? If you are a fragile woman, kind and obedient, you will attract a tough guy who will stand by your side and protect you. If you are a strong, independent woman, you will attract a soft man, phlegmatic or unstable who will give you the freedom to do what you wish, but you can't count on him to stand by you because you can do it better by yourself. The trouble is, what if you are independent and strong, and you wish for an equal partner? Do you need to prete...

Do you wonder why some women are always elegant, approachable, and kind, so it makes them popular? At first sight, men will think they are available to flirt. They expose their photos on social networks, you can see them everywhere. She has many followers on Instagram; she is popular on Facebook. She is popular in her workplace. She is a popular neighbor. Guys with less experience will try to involve with them. It looks like an easy target to get in the bed, they will think. Suddenly, there is a wall. The same woman who smiled at you and talked sweet showed you the way out. "No, I am not interested in you," she says. You try again. "What part of this sentence you don't understand. Get out," she says, rough. Now, the guy is in doubt. She added him to her page. She liked his photo. She accepted his coffee. Now, she rejects him like he is a toy. "Damn bitch. " the angry one will say. We in Croatia have a proverb: ...

Everyone has ex - relationships. We build our experiences through failed relationships; we jump in the romances which will not end well. Maybe we know from the beginning there is no future, but it tempts us. Then we make an attempt and it fails. Every past relationship is not a bitter experience. After we froze our feelings and time pass, we could change our romance to friendship. Yes, that person is still in our life, just with a different role. We are not kissing and cuddling anymore, we just want to be there as support.  There is no problem if we have an agreement. You know where is the line. I will talk to you and you have my loyalty, but it doesn't mean that I will jump in your bed when you get horny. If I was in your bed once, it doesn't mean I must do this forever.  The problem appears when your ex uses your friendship like an intro in a sex adventure. So, I am listening to you, and now I will hug you and you will be mine again. You will be in...